Has feminism left us confused about the roles we play as men and women in today's society? To some extent, I believe it has. It's made women like us more focused on action, which in terms of energy, is yang or masculine. Feminine, or yin energy, on the other hand is about being, about receiving.
Yet, in a modern world where women are increasingly taking on male roles, it's becoming harder to balance our feminine energy with the roles we must play in our careers and relationships. We're not as comfortable with receiving, with leaning back, and allowing men to express their masculinity, as the women of yesteryears were.
In some ways it has benefited us because too much passivity (yin) invites abusive behaviour. Too much yang energy, on the other hand, is repelling. The key to healthier interactions, then, is striking a balance, and knowing how to express our energies in an appropriate manner at work and home.
From advice on how to avoid overfunctioning in relationships, to being a woman boss who commands respect without having to act like a man, to being proactive about your personal safety, the articles in this issue will try to address that imbalance.
In the month of July 2007, Naaree.com will hold a workshop on self-defense for women, so if you live in Mumbai, please register on the site to receive updates. Till next time, we'll celebrate the arrival of the monsoon as it cools down the subcontinent and the earth bursts into greenery once more.
Be good to yourself.
Priya Florence Shah
Editor, Naaree.com
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