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New Woman, New Choices

The new Indian woman has more choices than ever, today. And nowhere is that more clear than in her relationships - or lack of them. Today, women who choose to stay single, cohabit, or date casually, are no longer seen as social misfits or rebels. Nor is opting out of the traditional route of marriage and motherhood seen as a defiance of the system, but a very real choice that Indian women are making for very real reasons.

Forced marriages, dowry deaths, abuse, and torture are only a few of the reasons the reasons that so many Indian women attempt to escape the gilded cage of matrimony. With women acquiring more freedom and independence, connection and companionship are now the mainstay of healthy relationships, as opposed to dependence and duty.

The age of "sham marriages" - bonds forged out of sheer necessity, obligation, or family pressure - is coming to an end. Increasingly Indian women (and men) are choosing to date, and wait, for the right person to come along.

In this issue, we analyse the pros and cons of these new lifestyle choices. From the hard questions, like whether living-in is liberating or harmful to marriage, to the benefits and drawbacks of staying single, and the repercussions of casual sex, our feature articles cover the gamut of relationship choices that Indian women are making today.

The underlying message that comes through, is that, no matter what choices a woman makes, the important thing is that she goes into it with complete self-awareness, and for reasons that benefit her - in the long-term.

Enjoy this issue and do leave your comments.

Priya Florence Shah
Editor, Naaree.com

 

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Single And Loving It
The Pros And Cons Of Staying Single
The Pros And Cons Of Staying Single

Single women enjoy the benefits of freedom, financial independence and the ability to prioritise their career above family. Staying single is a choice that Indian women are choosing in increasing numbers, as they refuse to settle for less than satisfying relationships. Pallavi Bhattacharya analyses why, like all other choices in life, choosing to staying single has its pros and cons.

 


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Cohabitation
Live-In Relationships: Will They Work In India?
Live-In Relationships: Will They Work In India?

That the Indian government has recently recognised live-in relationships on par with marriage, in a new law on domestic violence proves that this is a growing social reality. While living-in may be liberating to some women, social research proves otherwise. Women need to be very clear about why they choose to cohabitate with a partner, reports Savia Rajagopal.


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Dating Dish
Dating Dish: Why 'Friends With Benefits' Only Benefits HIM
Dating Dish: Why 'Friends With Benefits' Only Benefits HIM
"Friends With Benefits" is the so-called "agreement" between a man and a woman that they will exhibit all of the behaviours of a full-fledged couple - talking on the phone, spending time together, and sleeping together - without actually having any of the rights or privileges of a full-fledged couple. Dating coach, Paige Parker tells us why such an arrangement is far more DETRIMENTAL to you than it ever is beneficial.
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Woman's Voice
No! Don’t Rape My Life!
No! Don’t Rape My Life!

Even in this day and age, forced marriage, dowry deaths, bride burning, abuse, rape and torture are everyday occurrences in India. Khushboo Aulakh's poignant and emotional essay voices the cry of many Indian women who are taught to be subservient to men, and forced into abusive and unhappy marriages.


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Indian Marriages
All Things Equal: Role Reversal In Indian Marriage
All Things Equal: Role Reversal In Indian Marriage

Seeing a man in a kitchen may have been social taboo decades ago, but it is becoming more and more acceptable in today's modern Indian marriage, writes SAVIA RAJAGOPAL. 


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Dangerous Liaisons
NRI Marriages: A Risky Proposition
NRI Marriages: A Risky Proposition
As an endless stream of heart wrenching testimony sheds light on the social evil, the abandoned brides are asking just one question ...... Where have our husbands gone? Leena Kundnani profiles the tragedy of NRI marriages that go sour.
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Positive Living
Being an Empowered Woman
Being an Empowered Woman

The following ideas are taken from Louise L. Hay's book, Empowering Women, Every Woman's Guide to Successful Living. Hay is the author of 18 books, including You Can Heal Your Life.


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Healthy Relationships
The Top 10 Steps to Attract Your Ideal Relationship. Really.
The Top 10 Steps to Attract Your Ideal Relationship. Really.

Let's revisit the idea of attracting your ideal partner and creating your ideal relationship. After all, that is what we all really want - relationships that are more love than work, relationships that are full of true connection. Relationship coach, Rinatta Paries gives you the ten steps to get you to that kind of relationship. 


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Naturopathy
How To Balance Your Hormones Naturally
How To Balance Your Hormones Naturally

Harsh chemical drugs to rectify hormonal imbalance can ravage the body with their side effects. A far healthier option is to restore hormonal balance by nourishing the female endocrine system and reproductive organs with a healthy diet, providing nutrients that facilitate holistic health and healing on a cellular level. Naturopath, Dr.Muneerah Kuraishi, shows us how to regulate our hormones through proper diet and nutrition.


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Beauty Tips
Acne And The Vegetarian Diet
Acne And The Vegetarian Diet

Are you a vegetarian (or even vegan) who suffers from acne and can’t understand why? Do you eat ample servings of vegetables, fruits, avoid all the “bad” foods, but still have acne and other skin problems? Skincare consultant, Angela Purcell tells you why a vegetarian diet is not necessarily as healthy as it seems. 


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Sacred Feminine
Patriarchy, Pills And PMS Patriarchy, Pills And PMS

A pill to stop your periods, scream the headlines announcing the fact that scientists are working on a pill that could eliminate the need for women to have monthly menstruation. But who decides these things? And who benefits by defining a woman’s period as something that should be done away with?


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