By Acharya Subhojit Dasgupta
Are you plagued by sexual guilt? Have your dark sexual fantasies ever made you wonder if you’re normal or perhaps perverted? You’re not alone. We all have our dark side, and ancient tantra teaches us that the less conscious we are of it, the denser and more veiled that dark side becomes.
Many women in India have been the victim of sexual abuse and are forced to suffer great emotional suffering, guilt and spiritual anguish.
If you were ever sexually abused as a child, you need to take comfort in the fact that there are ways to achieve complete healing and recovery so that you can live a normal, healthy, adult life without sexual shame and guilt.
The good news is that our darkest sexual desires can become instructive and meaningful if we summon them into the light of consciousness. When the light of tantra consciousness shines, even the seemingly profane can be transformed into something sacred.
Ancient tantra teaches us that whatever we give value to and empower with intention and purpose can become sacred and beautiful. This includes our dark sexual desires.
If they remain unacknowledged and unexamined, they seem to us as evil and we fear them. As a result, we become dysfunctional in our relationships and in our sex lives.
An experienced tantra master can teach you to accept and embrace these dark desires and to put them to use in your quest for authenticity.
Under an expert tutor, countless students of tantra all over the world have learned to embrace their shadowed sexual desires and to integrate them healthily into their lives.
In the course of his instructions, a good tantra teacher puts an end to the repression of dark sexual fantasies and yearnings.
He will help you to accept your sexuality completely, including its dark manifestations. You will no longer feel any need for denial, shame, self-disgust or self-doubt.
Remember that repressed, unexpressed and un-transformed sexual fantasies can lead to problems with anger, violence, manipulation and sexual deviancy. Also remember that the more we deny the existence of something in our lives, the more it controls us.
Tantra is a spiritual path of enlightenment and self-acceptance, and it offers those who suffer from sexual guilt, fear and confusion as a path of hope and holistic healing.
In helping you to accept the dark side of our sexual nature, your tantra master relieves you of the negative power it holds over you. Your sexuality will no longer be a mystery to you, and you will no longer need to deny it.
As a result, you will find many negative aspects of your life gradually changing for the better. You will finally understand and accept your sexual nature. With this understanding and acceptance comes to the power of choice over the way in which you express it.
Acharya Subhojit Dasgupta is a Tantra Teacher with an in-depth knowledge of traditional Indian sciences and Sanskrit literature.
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